The mind blowing science behind: Why are women always right

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Women are always right

The old myth is true and here is why

Listen up guys, because this is bad news. Never ever think you can win an argument with a lady.
But hang in there, the article also provide a very easy solution to this. So lets start!

It might sounds like total madness but the old myth still applies, and it says: Women are always right. There is several confusion in this question, so I will take some time to explain this further. First of all it does not make much sense how someone can never be wrong (even if you are totally convinced you are right)

We have already talked about what drives women and men. One of the core differences is what I would call our core behavior is from what we are acting and how we motivate our actions. There is two main types. Emotional based thinking and rational/logical thinking (guess witch one applies to each gender?)

Its not a black and white world, but generally speaking women are emotional based creatures and men are logical and rational ones. Its very easy to see how they work, for example on dates.

Men always try to rationalize their actions

Men many times try to rationalize their actions. I took her out, made her have a good time, I invited her to a nice restaurant and she kissed me all night. Logically she would sleep with me in the end of the date.
A women goes more like. I had a nice date, he made me laugh a lot, I feel safe in his company. I have a good feeling about him and I will probably end up sleeping with him in the end of the night. Do you see the dynamic?

You might believe this is a silly detail, but I would list this on the top 3 things where men just don’t get it. When a man says: I cant really understand women or they are totally irrational in their behaviour, this is exactly where it comes up. And in this we are actually very right. Women are not always logical.

Men have under many thousands of year developed a very logical thinking, where we need to take quick correct decisions in shortest possible time. In the same time we need to be strong enough for the whole pack to follow our lead in order to survive. A man cant let his emotions take over in a situation like that or he will risk the safety of everyone around him.

So what does this have to do with the fact that women are always right? Well let me put it in this way. A logical thought will always be considered an opinion. Not a fact. If you tell a women, I think you are the problem in this relationship, because you are not smiling to me, you don’t want to spend time together and we don’t have sex anymore. Now this might all be true, but its still just your personal opinion on how the situation looks like.

She might reply: When i’m free, you are always with your buddies, and when you get back i’m too tired to have sex, all this stresses me out and because of that i’m not happy.

She will always have an emotional response

No matter how you try to rationalize the situation, she will always have an emotional response (most of the time, how you make her feel) and she will throw it back in your face. Now here is the big point. Where an opinion can be wrong, an emotion can’t! An emotion will always be true and real, because its a feeling. You could tell to somebody, I think your opinion is wrong, but you could never tell someone: what you feel is not real or you don’t feel sad.

So because women are usually more emotional based, they always use feelings and emotions to rationalize their behavior, and there is no way you can compete with that.
More sadly you might have to realize that you are both part of the problem and the solution in this case. And the bright side of this story, there is a very easy way how to solve it.

Never ever argue with a women. Men who understands women don’t argue with them. Never ever, with no exceptions. A man who understands women, also understand that the underlying reasons for her frustration is something completely different. When she is angry with you for not taking out the trash, a man many times try to rationalize it. He might say that he took out the trash every day last week, and cleaned the house ect ect.

Never ever argue with a women.

But unfortunately he totally missed the point. A loving woman in a happy relationship would never be angry or point out this small things. Instead in this situations there is something that creates this frustration. Many times when a women don’t feel safe, loved or desired, they will point out something else that can rationalize their emotional feeling.

To understand this dynamic between our different emotional responses is a key point when it comes to have a good effortless relationship with any women.

Treat your lady like she deserve

Treat your lady like she deserve, instead of argue with her. Suddenly women emotional behavior will look a lot more rational to a guy. Because we respond to how we get treated, and sometimes when a women wants to pick up an argument. Guess what, maybe its not about her irrational mood or hormones, but simply that you didn’t pay enough attention to her needs and emotions.

Girls: Please share this to your boyfriends to help create a better world
Guys: Follow this advice and your lady will turn into the princess you always wanted

 

This is a short text from a book about attraction that is planned to be released early next year

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